Let’s Go on Vacation!

Traveling with kids can be fun -
here some great ideas to make a trip easier.

 

  • Let the kids be a part of the planning process – Ask your children where they would like to go and what they would like to do on the trip.  Spend time on the computer together looking at different websites and activities.  If you have teenagers, let them help with the actual executing of the trip.  Show them how to book a hotel, book a plane ticket and rent a car.
  • Make a story of your planned trip –  Draw a picture with your children of what the new location will look like and what you will do once you get there.  Use pictures out of magazines or off the internet to add extra color and fun (like a picture of the exciting swimming pool at the hotel).  This is a great way to prepare your children for the upcoming trip.
  • Talk to your children the whole time (from beginning to end) - Talk to your children before the trip, during the trip and after the trip.  Tell them in age-appropriate sentences where you are going, how long you will be gone, and what is going to happen during the trip.  Make sure to check in with the children throughout the trip – ask them how they are feeling, what they are liking, not liking and make sure to tell them about what the next upcoming event is.
  • Be prepared if traveling by plane - Don’t check any medicines or essential items!  Instead carry them in your carry-on bag, as checked luggage can easily get lost or misplaced.   Before getting on the plane, do a lot of walking around the airport terminal with your children.  Look for new things to talk about and point out the airplanes parked at the windows.  It is easier to burn your child’s energy before getting on the plane instead of after.  For younger children, give them a pacifier or a bottle to suck on during take-offs and landings.  The pressure change can really affect a child’s ears so be ready before the plane takes off. 
  • Mimic the schedules and sleeping environment for the child – Wherever you are staying, it is very important to keep the baby as close to his normal schedule as possible from nap times, to bedtimes, feeding times and bath times.  Also, re-create the surroundings that your baby is use to having at home when sleeping.  Bring along favorite bedsheets, blankets and crib toys so it is easier for the baby to go to sleep.  Both of these will help a baby more quickly, and happily, adjust to the change.
  • Bring new games, toys and activities for the children - Kids can get bored on a trip whether they are in a car, on a plane or in a hotel room.  So bring some new and fun items for them to stay occupied with.  But introduce the new items slowly (one at a time over the course of the trip) instead of giving them all at once.  You want the new items to last for the entire trip.
  • Include activities for all ages during the trip – From time at a pool for the little ones, to time in a museum for the older ones – make sure to plan activities that are age-appropriate for each person on the trip.  Mix the schedule up so that you aren’t doing all the adult activities for days in a row and then finally a day for the younger children.  Instead do alternating days or even two activities in one day (one for adults and one for children).   This will help keep everyone engaged and involved during the trip.
  • Most importantly, include educational activities as well as fun activities – Vacations are a great time to introduce children to different cultures, histories, animals and foods.  Trips are a terrific way for children to really understand the differences that exist in our world today!
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Are You Ready for Camp?

Don’t you wish you were headed to camp?

Camp time is here!
I wanted to shared some of my time-tested
(and daughter-tested) tips with you.

  • Visit the camp before sending your child – Watch the other campers that are there to ensure that they feel comfortable and are having fun in the environment.
  • Take your child to visit the camp before starting -  Let your camper start to connect with the other campers, counselors and staff prior to officially starting.
  • Encourage your children to tell you what they liked and did not like.  (Remember to listen!)  – Your experience with the camp may be much different than theirs.
  • Think about ways you can help your child be comfortable at camp - Is there a special necklace she can wear?  Or an object he can put in his pocket as a reminder that they are loved?  How about a surprise note in their lunches every day?  Or a special stuffed animal to sleep with at night?
  • When arriving at camp for the first day, help your child meet the other campers - Plan on spending a few minutes at camp on the first day to walk around with your child and meet the other campers.
  • Stay in touch with the counselors - Make a plan to call the counselors once a week or to spend a few minutes with them when you drop your camper off.  Ask questions about how your child is doing, what his/her attitude is and if he/she is having any challenges (like problems with another camper or struggling with one of the actitivites).
  • Make sure your child is wearing cool and comfortable clothing - No heavy or scratchy fabrics as this can hinder the camper during activities.
  • For sleep-over campers - If your child is not allowed to have a phone, give him/her a journal or plenty of paper so that he/she can write to you and express the feelings and emotions about the camp experience.
  • Remember, it is all about your child being comfortable at camp!  Do whatever it takes to make sure that your camper is comfortable, not just on the first day but every day.  Ask a lot of questions and jump in and handle any situtation that is bothering your child.  Comfort = Fun and FUN is what camp is all about!
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How Well is Your Child Sleeping?

One of the most difficult situations for parents is their child’s sleep habits.  Remember, routine is key in establishing good sleep patterns with your children.

  • Sleep enhances sleep – The more children sleep, thebetter they will sleep.
  • Avoid heavy meals right before bedtime. No caffeine within 6 hours of bedtime.   Watch out for foods that contain caffeine – like chocolate.
  • Prepare for the next school day the night before.  This will allow for a bit more sleep time in the morning.  Pack lunches, backpacks and pick out clothes for the next day before child goes to sleep.
  • Don’t bundle or dress children too warmly for sleeping. It’s better for a child to be a bit cool at night, instead of overly warm.
  • Put babies into the crib while they are sleepy, but still awake – this will teach the child to self-sooth
  • Use a fan or humidifier to produce white noise which will drown out any outside noise.
  • Try using something like the Constellation Night Light Turtle to produce a calming night light effect in the child’s room.  (It even has a timer so that it goes off after 45 minutes.)
  • Have something that the child can focus on while falling asleep like a book on tape or his/her favorite music.
  • If your child won’t sleep alone, make sure there is no physical cause preventing the sleep (like an upset stomach or scratchy pajamas).  If your child is old enough, have him speak about what is preventing him from being able to sleep alone (i.e. he is scared of monsters or ghosts).  Go and soothe the child in his room, but resist bringing the child into your bed.
  • Stick to the same routine every night, even when traveling and on the weekends. For example: sing a song, read a book, do a cuddle, turn on the night light, turn on music and exit the room.  Consistency in routine will help the child’s body adjust to knowing that it is bedtime.
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And the winner is…

Mommybites Summit Bliss $300 Gift Certificate Winner Announced!

Click here to find out who the lucky Mommy is!

Don’t forget to sign up for Tammy’s Top Tips while you are there and receive a free copy of our new, updated “Mini Nanny Handbook.”

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Tammy’s Top Tips – Sign Up Now!

‎”Tammy’s Top Tips” is coming! A short, informative email that will include great tips covering all kinds of topics…from potty training, sleep training, toddler tantrums, and loads of others. If you sign up today, we will give you a FREE “Mini Nanny Handbook” which contains great tools for communicating with your caregiver.

We promise not to bombard your inbox, but instead will send you short, effective tips that you can put into action immediately.

Just click here:  Tammy’s Top Tips Sign Up to complete the short sign up form and get your free Mini Nanny Handbook.

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Please join us at the Mommybites Summit!


Babybites invites city moms (and dads and even grandparents!) to their annual Mommy
Bites Summit: The Ultimate Moms Night Out, happening May 19 at the Columbia Faculty
House. It’s an evening to meet other parents; enjoy wine and snacks; check out a variety
of cool kids’ products and services and hear amazing parenting talks by parenting
luminaries. We are, along with other notable parenting resources and products, one
of the featured vendors of the evening. All attendees will be entered to win incredible
raffle prizes and will leave with a fabulous gift bag.

Gold Parent Coaching will be there with an incredible raffle prize!  Make sure to stop by our table and sign up!

To learn more, click here:   Mommybites Summit

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Calling All Families with Multiples

We are so pleased to introduce to our families
(especially parents with multiples) an invaluable online
resource that we have discovered!

The Multiples and More blog is a community of families of twins, triplets, quads and more.  They are dedicated to providing support and information for the families of multiples, as well as connecting the families across the globe.  Expert interviews, money saving tips, posts with recipes and crafts, humorous articles and so much more can be found on this resourceful blog.

“As a professional and a parent, I cannot recommend this site more strongly to parents of multiples – it is amazing,” Tammy says.  “Multiples and More is such an important resource for parents of multiples.”

**Check out the Multiples and More blog today to find out about a special Nanny 101 telephone class that Tammy is offering – but hurry, registration is filling up fast!**

Multiples and More was the brain child of Amanda Nethero and Lani Lyons in 2009.  As friends who shared the experience of being the mom of multiples, they realized that there were no online resources that were a “one stop shop” for families of multiples.  The concept for the blog was born as they took their walks with their kids (back when the kids would still sit in their strollers).  Amanda shares, “I was really excited about this blog network because honestly other MoM’s have helped me so much with their blogs and I couldn’t wait for everyone else to experience this.”

Tammy totally agrees with Amanda and Lani and says, “I cannot think of anything more helpful to a nervous new mom of twins than having one place where she can seek guidance, information and confidence about raising multiples.”

Since that day, Multiples and More has grown to over 1300 community members, which Amanda and Lani never could have dreamed of.  They have succeeded in forming a blog network where families can connect with others that they would otherwise never met, find families that have had similar experiences, and learn from those who have had different ones.

“This is a wonderful resource!  Having multiples can put a huge physical, emotional and monetary strain on a family.  This site is a great tool to allow parents to not only connect and support each other, but also swap stories and helpful tips,” says Tammy.

Like the motto of Multiples and More says, there really is strength in numbers and families with multiples definitely need support from each other.

Tammy is so pleased to be hosting a special Nanny 101 class for readers of Multiples and More.  Please visit the blog today to see how you can register for this incredible upcoming opportunity.

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The Holidays are Here – How do you handle family expectations with a newborn?

Question:  How do I ensure everyone in the family gets some face time with my newborn, including me?

According to Tammy,  it’s all in the planning!

Make a game plan
First things first: You and your spouse have to be on the same page. This means sitting down together and really discussing how you each envision the holidays now that baby is on board. Be open and honest. You’ll need to iron out your individual ideas and decide how the two of you would like the holidays to happen. What’s important to you? Will you be creating new traditions? How much time would you like to spend alone? How much time do you want to spend with extended family and how can you make it fair? Would you consider hosting so that everyone travels to you? Hash out the challenges as soon as possible. You won’t want to wait until invitations are being issued and promises are being made.

Share the plan
Once the two of you have decided what you want to do, it’s time to make it happen. Announce your plan as soon as possible. Say something like, “We have a new baby, we’re exhausted and I’m really concerned about the four-hour drive. What can we do to make it easier?” It’s best to make it clear that you love your folks and want to make time to be with them over the holidays, but that things are different now and there are new things to consider. Does this mean also considering the families of your siblings? Of course. Let them all know you want to set it up so there’s a little something for everyone. And if your family insists that you stick to the same holiday schedule they’ve been on since you were born? Don’t be afraid to refuse.

Lose the guilt
Your parents may get upset when you start shaking up the holidays. Still, it’s okay to give yourselves priority. This is your new family. This family comes first. Go ahead and set aside some time to have baby all to yourselves. I see a lot of guilt coming from new parents surrounding this issue. By trying to satisfy everyone else, parents are missing out on valuable holiday time as a new family unit. You can’t assume what worked before will work again. This is a new family. Needs are different. Does this mean ditching your mom’s big dinner? Not necessarily. But it might mean asking Mom if she can do her dinner one night earlier this year. It’s about creating a new tradition that incorporates the old.

Go with it
Your needs have been laid on the table, you’ve stuck to your guns and you’ve listened to what the new grandparents have to say. Maybe you’ve made a few compromises along the way. Once everyone is (relatively) on the same page, mark your calendar, shake off the stress and savor the holidays. This is a time for celebrating, after all!

This posting was edited to suit this site but the original article was published on The Bump on 05/13/2009

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Upcoming Nanny 101 Classes

Ever wondered how to negotiate the difficult task of finding a new nanny?  Tammy, our “Nanny Expert, ” will be conducting several upcoming Nanny 101 classes to answer all your questions.  Everything from where to find a nanny to how make a job offer will be covered in these informative classes.  We would love to have you join us:

Monday, November 29th 6:30pm at Citibabes SOHO
(Hosted by MomPrep)
52 Mercer, 3rd Floor, New York, NY 10013

Tuesday, November 30th 6:30pm at MomPrep Uptown
1316 Madison Avenue, New York, NY 10128

To register:   Click Here

Monday, December 6th 6:00pm at City Treehouse
129A W 20th Street, New York, NY 10011

To register:  Click Here

We hope to see you there!

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Gold Parent Coaching to be Featured on Gaggle of Chicks Group Buying Service on November 16th, 2010

The Parental Support and Nanny Matching Company to Offer Discounted Services to Parents in the New York Tri-State Area while Launching its New Social Networking Strategy.

(SHORT HILLS, NJ)  November 15, 2010 – Gold Parent Coaching, LLC (“GPC”) will be featured as the “Daily Deal” on the mom-focused www.gaggleofchicks.com group buying service.  The deal, which goes live on Tuesday, November 16th, 2010 will enable purchasers to join the scores of other parents that have recently benefitted from GPC’s services while also enjoying a savings of 56% on any hour of parental coaching with GPC’s founder, Tammy Gold.  The deal can be previewed at www.gaggleofchicks.com on Monday November 15th, 2010.

“We are really looking forward to introducing our services to the gaggleofchicks.com community,” stated Tammy Gold.  “We have enjoyed a very strong reception from similar communities of other smart parents and are excited that we can now expand our reach to this group of savvy, self-aware ladies and their partners.”

The deal, if “hatched” will provide clients the opportunity to schedule a one-hour session for $99 – a 56% discount from the normal price of $225.  In order for the deal to “hatch,” a certain number of clients must sign up for the deal during the 48 hours the deal is available.  The deal is expected to go live on Tuesday, November 16th, 2010, and will continue to be offered for purchase until Wednesday, November 17th, 2010.

Click here to read more…

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